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  • tonight's episode: Linda -- talk about it here

    After graduating college, Linda found success working as an extra in Hollywood, achieving the glamorous life she always wanted. But her dreams died when she came down with Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, a rare disorder characterized by joint dislocations. Linda started taking fentanyl, a painkiller 100 times stronger than morphine. As her painkiller use escalated, she claimed that different sources were causing her pain, including electricity, energy, colors, and even specific people. Despite Linda's wild claims, her mother clings to the belief that Linda's pain is real and she must do everything to help her, including depleting the family's savings and sending her son to be Linda's caretaker.

     

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  • After so much straddling flack .... finally!!!!!

     

    someone messaged me about her hips!!!

    I actually tried your way of fixing your hip on the show and it works.

    I did the one where you lay on your back and pop them in and then when I stand back up I lean back a bit to get them the rest of the way. Its a combination.

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  • Re: After so much straddling flack .... finally!!!!!

    I posted recently that a doctor advocates something similar.

    Not near the street in short shorts of course. That's a major reason for the ridicule. It's been over 2 years. How about finally telling us why you did that in public and whether the film crew was told it was for hip pain?

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  • Re: Re: Re: 'Linda's ' Posts

    Posted By: ashleyannbrown
    "It was my hope that this show would show the struggle between managing pain and letting pain medication get out of control when dealing with EDS. It is a great disservice to everyone that it did not."

    I agree this would have been interesting. The episode about Brooke addresses it to some extent except I just found this thread where people are, of course, criticizing Ken Seely for going too easy on her! http://community.aetv.com/service/displayDiscussionThreads.kickAction?as=119137&w=267410&d=548173

    I liked how Ken Seely treated Brooke... and Linda for that matter. Wish he was still on the show. Ken, wherever you are hope things are good and that life is treating you well!

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  • Re: tonight's episode: Linda -- talk about it here

    I am LOVING that other thread. So glad there is a place where people were freely allowed to speak their mind against Linda withoutbeing deleted.

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  • Re: tonight's episode: Linda -- talk about it here

    Finally convinced my husband to watch the episode and he was flabbergasted that anyone would believe she actually has EDS. He sees what I deal with on a daily basis with EDS and calls BS on Linda having it. I agree. AS for the producers somehow portraying Linda incorrectly - YOU did all those things, they didn't make that up. YOU have to own up to that. They couldn't portray you inaccurately if you hadn't actually done thsoe things.

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  • Re: tonight's episode: Linda -- talk about it here

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    Finally convinced my husband to watch the episode and he was flabbergasted that anyone would believe she actually has EDS. He sees what I deal with on a daily basis with EDS and calls BS on Linda having it. I agree. AS for the producers somehow portraying Linda incorrectly - YOU did all those things, they didn't make that up. YOU have to own up to that. They couldn't portray you inaccurately if you hadn't actually done thsoe things.

    No, the producers still could have portrayed Linda inaccurately and did. Because they relied on biased third-parties, her family (experts at denial) and the doctor who never personally examined her. It simply does not make sense for a person to make up having Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome.

    That said, her exaggerating pain and attributing pain to things that can't cause pain did not help. Linda was there mainly for prescription medication abuse and craziness, not EDS. Her case, when not complicated by overmedication, probably is mild. Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome can be mild (if EDS usually were very disabling, it would be extremely rare). Even in Linda's Facebook group, there probably are many members with serious health issues who yet can move around well at times. I've met people with EDS online and offline - I know what I'm talking about.

    A probable reasons posts started being deleted regularly is repetition of dubious assertions meant to sting. That stuff gets aggravating to read.

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  • Orthostatic intolerance mentioned on E!

    OMG!! Giuliana Rancic mentioned Orthostatic intolerance on E! Some member of the Wiggles has it!! It's a victory today!! For those of you who do not know. Postural Orthostatic tachycardia is common and sometimes goes hand in hand with EDS. I have many friends who have POTS and it often gets treated like EDS. Doctors do not believe in it and sufferers are sometimes treated as drug seekers as well! How great for it to finally get some mention on TV!! :)))

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  • Re: Orthostatic intolerance mentioned on E!

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    OMG!! Giuliana Rancic mentioned Orthostatic intolerance on E! Some member of the Wiggles has it!! It's a victory today!! For those of you who do not know. Postural Orthostatic tachycardia is common and sometimes goes hand in hand with EDS. I have many friends who have POTS and it often gets treated like EDS. Doctors do not believe in it and sufferers are sometimes treated as drug seekers as well! How great for it to finally get some mention on TV!! :)))

    I was watching E! News (which I rarely do) and Googling Guiliana's background info a few hours earlier, but I didn't see the segment. I'd heard about Greg Page's condition, though. I guess it's about him getting it under control well enough to rejoin the group.

    About a month ago, The Doctors mentioned "orthostatic intolerance" or "orthostatic hypotension" (re blood pressure), but I was annoyed because as usual underlying possibilities weren't mentioned.I think it's at least a third of people with EDS who have the problem. I have not heard of doctors rejecting patients as drug seekers for it, not in the "You're here to get meds to abuse" way. But as I've said before, opiods lower blood pressure, which is another reason to get off the "Just take pain meds" idea that you shouldn't be pushing.

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  • Autism rates increase by 79% since 2000!!!

    There has been a 79% increase in Autism since 2000. From 1 in 150 kids to 1 in 88 now. Can people not connect the dots and figure out that that is when everyone got cell phones?? As someone with weak connective tissue and can literally feel the waves it makes me crazy when i see them held around a baby's head which is still so pliable. Get it together people!! Just keep on damaging baby brains with ur phones!!

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  • more on autism......

    It makes much more sense seeing as people sense that Cells can cause brain tumors in a few years. But can't see the brain damage that it is doing to brains that are still attempting to form and grow. Even Dr Drew and other specialist have said that the EMF that they produce destroy cells that eventually must be reproduced. and this occurs in adults. How on earth are babies and children suppose to catch up?? and it may not just be the phone. Satellite dishes are just as damaging......

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  • Autism awareness day!!!

    Autism Awareness day!! Let's keep those Cells away from Babies please?? Hopefully one day soon people will figure it out.....Seriously they don't let pregnant mom's take xrays for fear of birth defects why would it be ok to constanly expose baby brains to the same type of EMF??

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  • Government cover up?? Obviously!!!!

    Honest to God there has to be some kind of cover up that the Government is not investigating this. It really does not take too much common sense to figure out that the rates increased at the same time of the advent of Cell phones??

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  • Lack of Common Sense? Obviously

    Autism has many possible causes, including genetics and toxins (some of which have become common in the past few decades). I Googled "conspiracy" and there is a book about cell phones - but I doubt the author means a true conspiracy or even a cover-up. More like recklessness, disorganization, low priorities, and self-serving corporate interests. Like prescription drugs. A much more dangerous invention which the government finally is looking at more closely, due to cases such as yours. How about posting only sane-sounding things here and posting wacky thoughts anonymously elsewhere? I suppose Facebook "friends" don't want to hear much about it. Even better, how about finally doing inner work and getting a respectable life like a few Intervention subjects have done? There's no way to be proven right on these pet topics, because so much was 'off' in the episode and still is. Faulty thinking led to trouble much more than chronic pain did.

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  • Cell Phones, Autism & Genetic Damage, Not Dislocations

    I put it all together today, after a news story about genetic mutations being suspected in autism.

    Cell phones and genetic damage - http://www.ijhg.com/article.asp?issn=0971-6866;year=2005;volume=11;issue=2;spage=99;epage=104;aulast=Gandhi

    Many other things can cause genetic damage.

    Meanwhile, I think we can all see the underlying suggestion here, that if cell phones can cause autism, they can cause dislocations. Nope!

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    You know I was writing this to a friend of mine as she has been absent from my EDS board for a while and I NOTICED that my board just hasn't been the same without her of late. She messaged me to tell me she had been attacked on some other boards and was thinking about giving up [posting all together. i wrote this back to her and realized... Dang I need to take my own advice!!

     

    Hey Sweetie! I really miss you! the board is not the same without you! the info you give out is phenomenal and everyone can relate to you. Don't listen to the negativity. That crap is limiting you from being your best. you have the world to offer to other EDSers. Don't let some ignorant fools get u down or keep u from your love. That kind of ignorance is hurting all of us!!!! Me the most!! At least stay around my board. You will never be attacked there. Your too precious for me to allow it. I've actually been kinda down with your absence. the board is not as good without you! please come back and never listen to those insane people ever again!! I love you and u are invaluable!! Sorry about ur pain levels :( much love!!!! Linda :)

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  • The Solution is Work and Friends

    That sounds rather eloquent, but it has minimal relevance. Plus, it supports what I've been saying, about Linda knowing how to wear a mask that people like (which is manipulative and ineffective in the long run) and also that she posts here due to unmet needs.

    Obviously one issue is too much free time. Instead of goofing off, get a part-time job, even if it's just volunteer work. And there of course is inner work to do, and not with a therapist in the role of friend (therapists are guides and critics if necessary, not friends). Make friends elsewhere. Real friends, not cyber-friends, not Intervention failures/bad influences. (Real friends too sometimes will serve as critics, when appropriate.) It's not easy to make real friends, but it's doable. If able to make an impression that is genuine and without most of the nonsense so obvious in the episode. Or otherwise it's too shallow or too aggravating for the other person (e.g., me). Let the good parts shine and stop being a screw-up. Everyone is waiting to see progress.

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  • Water issues!!!

    I love the water but the water doesn't like me. I am allergic to the chemicals in the water and getting in and out of the pool is almost impossible to not dislocate my knees. Then being in the water makes my joints much looser. It is terrible........ My response!!!

    OMG!!!! no freakin way! I'm so glad u said that!!!!!! I had to stop swimming for the exact same reason. My joints get wayyyy looser in the water. Like what happens when u put spaghetti in a pot! Linguini!! I met a couple other people this ...happened to. Its so Fantastic to know of another person this happens to. I think its the strangest phenomena. I feel like Bounty the quicker picker upper. I'm super absorbent. But this would explain why I'm more sensitive to Electricity.... I always think its just me!!!

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  • This so made my day!!!!

    Friends, I have added my mom in law  and my hubby to this group. I am grateful that they want to learn about EDS with me and I feel this group has the best circle of EDS peeps, you are my other family........... "This post came from a newer member and I don't think she knows the group is mine. So I am taking stock in the fact that I sure know how to pick em! " It is nice that we get our members mostly through word of mouth these days.  We are up to 178 members and I don't think we have hit our Ist Birthday yet. I'm just a proud momma!!!

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  • Might Have Made Linda's Day

    A local TV news station did a segment about how to reduce children's exposure to the EMF or whatever from cell phones. I didn't catch all of it, and there was some disclaimer about a medical expert disagreeing (maybe because there isn't solid evidence of danger). To me, that is "common sense," regardless of EMF, because letting kids have a potential tool for social distraction is a bad idea. And no, cell phones don't cause dislocations.

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  • Dial a star

    This is too freakin funny! Heard Octomom was makin money doin Dial a star so I thought i'd give them a holler!! And guess what ??? They want me!! LOL They all want me to pick a rate! Well  sure as hell wouldn't be $18 an hour! LOL Hmmmm thinking $5???

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